He who casts the first stone....

He who casts the first stone... Must make sure he kills his target with one shot. I wish that's how the saying goes but...we all know what it says or how it goes. Human beings are so hypocritical. We say one thing, do another, pretend to be saints and taint other peoples images and names. Why? Because every single human being is selfish, always thinking of themselves. Its natural.

But... This selfishness breeds envy and hate and quite frankly a lot of stupidity like people always wanting to know who's doing what, who's doing who, who got what, who lost what but basically always trying to find faults or flaws in others. Don't get me wrong. I am not saying its all negative but like all 'normal' people I will focus on the negative. 

You would wonder why people do this. Why people will put a lot of time and effort in finding out the silliest of things about another person. That has always baffled me. Yes we like to hear a lil gossip here and there but some people are dedicated to hunting for 'juicy' stories such that they end up lying and just creating sensational stories to keep their audience entertained.

What am I trying to get at? Here's this scenario... Let's imagine I am married (we imagining) and I have a beautiful wife and a lovely daughter. And then I have a girlfriend... Beautiful too coz what would the point of having someone below standard as your mistress? Anyway... Now why should it bother somebody else what I do or who I do? What matters is what my wife thinks right? Right. 

What if my wife has no problem with it? What if its normal in our world? Why should it become the subject of preening eyes and wagging tongues? With that said we all know that I am married to a beautiful woman I love so much and I have an awesomely bright daughter....mystery is... Do I have said beautiful girlfriend?.... 

And the gossip begins.

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